Firstly, I'd like to say that how I seem to react towards sex in class does NOT reflect my real ideals. ASk me about it. I don't mind having a real discussion :P And then we'll see if I really am as immature as you think about it.
Well...the other day, I was just seriously reflecting on why I giggled when sex was mentioned during lessons? Pretty stupid, but I realised that it was because I expected others to laugh along as well. And I wanted to be part. yeah right, and I ended up being the only one laughing. So I stopped myself.
I wouldn't say my attitude toward sex is immature...just more conservative than that of most ppl nowadays. Yes, I'm proud to say that my ideal is to remain a virgin until marriage. So? Because it's the most precious thing you can give to the one you love enough to spend the rest of your life with. I'm not all against pre-marital sex, but no-sex-until-marriage is the ideal. Love is so much more than just sex after all. I'd hate it if a relationship became a purely sexual one, with no real passion or emotions after all. When one truely loves someone else, even if he/she wasn't physically there with you, your feelings for him/her would still be just as strong. The most mature relations are ones where couples are self-assured with each other, and don't have to keep groping each other all over the place or necking in public.
What I really dislike is prominiscuity. Why be so cheap? Sure, it's for pleasure, and the ppl who do it may not care what diseases they get. But I just don't see the point. Those girls who hop into bed with just anyone...one night stands...is that what you call mature? Because I don't think only those who have one night stands, and/or are promiscuous, are particularly mature about sex either, if that's what you think defines maturity.
What does being an adult mean? To me, it means taking responsibility, being stable and firm in one's thoughts, beliefs and actions, mature-minded, confident of oneself, being able to tell between right and wrong, not being influenced too easily, respecting others and knowing how to behave and what to say at the right time.
I won't dare say I'm completely mature yet...at 16, how mature can one be? Most of us still live at home, with our parents, and don't have to fend for ourselves yet. We're still in school, haven't experienced the stress, pressure and hardship of work life. Is it right to say then that we're truely mature?
I know I'm not terribly ugly. But I know I'm not very beautiful or anything either. Nothing you say bothers me, because I'm comfortable with my own looks.
I sing for myself. And I like singing songs in a language ppl can't understand. So? I don't care if no one listens to my singing. As I'm not singing for others, why should they care if they understand what I'm singing?
But right now I'm trying to hum the tune instead.
Kz, dun have to do 200 free...100 instead...oh well...
coffee: what makes you think YOU will survive in this world as well?
Oh, the arrogance in my guestbook! Stephanie, you have to live with the fact that not everyone in Singapore is perfectly fluent in English. Good grades do not maketh a good person.
Has it ever occured to you that Chinese proverbs and sayings came about due to the originator's experiences and wisdom? Don't just dismiss them like this. Yes, they're words, but they're words that make sense and can apply in life. Don't look down on Chinese.
I know Snowy Angel personally. And yes, those who diss him do it to his face. With no swear words, and in a constructive manner.
Stephanie, I think you should grow up as well. All your comments and everything just show immaturity. Why let what i said about you bring out your ugly side? With all the swearing and all. If you were more mature you'd defend yourself while still upholding your dignity.