Kansha Kangeki Amearashi
感謝カンゲキ雨嵐
Kansha Kangeki Amearashi...It's thanks to the RainStorm that I found myself again.
日曜日, 4月 11, 2004
Just so that you'll see this first:
Adeline: You can insult me all you like but you don't know really know Gwen or how she feels, so you have absolutely no right to call her a lapdog!!!
Just a quiz one of my friends posted up on friendster...
Heart of Gold
What is Your Heart REALLY Made of?
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Is that really true?
Everything I answer, everything I do...by myself when there's no one around...is what my heart tells me to do...
Sometimes it takes some guts
Sometimes it may not be right
What's wrong with this world now is that personal freedom of expression has become a right--at the expense of others' feelings. We say what we want to say, what we truely feel; we do what we really want to do...so that we won't appear fake. And sometimes our frank words and actions hurt others....others don't take too well to it
But if we're not as blunt about our feelings--if we don't voice what we really think, so as not to hurt others as much as possible--if we don't show our true feelings, others see it as 'fake'.
The question is, what's the right thing to do? To be frank, blunt and express yourself freely--saying what you want to, others notwithstanding--and end up hurting others' feelings in the process? Or to hide your true thoughts and feelings in public, and reveal them only to yourself, or a trusted few...and be labelled a hypocrite--someone fake--in the process?
This society...needs to spare more thought for others' feelings...
I'm a victim of society. I don't even know if everything's a farce any longer. Everything's contradictory...
But let's face it. Humans are hypocritical. There are shades of grey.
What's better? A society where everyone thinks of others' feelings and tries their best not to hurt others...in the process appearing unnatural and fake?
Or one where everyone voices out what they really honestly feel, in blunt terms, maybe a few (no, more than a few) swear words thrown in? Where people's feelings get hurt so much that they're numb and unable to feel for others any more? But everything will be honest and unfake then. Is that what you really want? because I feel that that's where society is heading sometimes...we insult, we call names, but we can't give good , convincing reasons why.
Like the Miss Singapore-Universe contest...the reporter who wrote that article should have known better...should have had better judgement...it wasn't in the forum page, but in the main newspaper itself, as an article--not even a commentary...
Your Energy is Purple. You are a visionary with
unmatched intuition and spiritual
consciousness. The mystical world and
unexplainable forces fascinate you. There
resides in you a true dignity and nobility, and
others see you as a worthy leader, and loyal
friend. You are often very mature, with a deep
understanding of human nature, and you will
instinctively encourage and guide others toward
their full potential.
You find it natural to express yourself
aesthetically and artistically, you may be
involved in the artistic professions, a
religious organization, or in activities that
have a degree of ceremony and ritual. You would
make a good therapist, healer, psychic, or
entrepreneur.
What color is your energy?
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many ppl don't really know me. Only those really close to me, who have really chatted with me, who have spent lots of time talking to me, both in and outside school, know who I really am, what I'm really like.
I know I was too harsh in judging Stephanie, but let's face it, if u dislike someone, u dislike someone, and you'll still be biased against that person no matter what others say, until or unless that person does something that changes your opinions of her.
Adeline: You can insult me all you like but you don't know really know Gwen or how she feels, so you have absolutely no right to call her a lapdog!!!
Just a quiz one of my friends posted up on friendster...
Heart of Gold
What is Your Heart REALLY Made of?
brought to you by Quizilla
Is that really true?
Everything I answer, everything I do...by myself when there's no one around...is what my heart tells me to do...
Sometimes it takes some guts
Sometimes it may not be right
What's wrong with this world now is that personal freedom of expression has become a right--at the expense of others' feelings. We say what we want to say, what we truely feel; we do what we really want to do...so that we won't appear fake. And sometimes our frank words and actions hurt others....others don't take too well to it
But if we're not as blunt about our feelings--if we don't voice what we really think, so as not to hurt others as much as possible--if we don't show our true feelings, others see it as 'fake'.
The question is, what's the right thing to do? To be frank, blunt and express yourself freely--saying what you want to, others notwithstanding--and end up hurting others' feelings in the process? Or to hide your true thoughts and feelings in public, and reveal them only to yourself, or a trusted few...and be labelled a hypocrite--someone fake--in the process?
This society...needs to spare more thought for others' feelings...
I'm a victim of society. I don't even know if everything's a farce any longer. Everything's contradictory...
But let's face it. Humans are hypocritical. There are shades of grey.
What's better? A society where everyone thinks of others' feelings and tries their best not to hurt others...in the process appearing unnatural and fake?
Or one where everyone voices out what they really honestly feel, in blunt terms, maybe a few (no, more than a few) swear words thrown in? Where people's feelings get hurt so much that they're numb and unable to feel for others any more? But everything will be honest and unfake then. Is that what you really want? because I feel that that's where society is heading sometimes...we insult, we call names, but we can't give good , convincing reasons why.
Like the Miss Singapore-Universe contest...the reporter who wrote that article should have known better...should have had better judgement...it wasn't in the forum page, but in the main newspaper itself, as an article--not even a commentary...
Your Energy is Purple. You are a visionary with
unmatched intuition and spiritual
consciousness. The mystical world and
unexplainable forces fascinate you. There
resides in you a true dignity and nobility, and
others see you as a worthy leader, and loyal
friend. You are often very mature, with a deep
understanding of human nature, and you will
instinctively encourage and guide others toward
their full potential.
You find it natural to express yourself
aesthetically and artistically, you may be
involved in the artistic professions, a
religious organization, or in activities that
have a degree of ceremony and ritual. You would
make a good therapist, healer, psychic, or
entrepreneur.
What color is your energy?
brought to you by Quizilla
many ppl don't really know me. Only those really close to me, who have really chatted with me, who have spent lots of time talking to me, both in and outside school, know who I really am, what I'm really like.
I know I was too harsh in judging Stephanie, but let's face it, if u dislike someone, u dislike someone, and you'll still be biased against that person no matter what others say, until or unless that person does something that changes your opinions of her.
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